Goin Down One Notch at a Time

Today I dare ask the question, "How does someone get bump from 'boyfriend' to 'friend' to 'acquaintance' status? And how does one deal with it?'

I guess the answer all has to do with the person who bumped you off. First and foremost... a "break-up", something that tells you that the relationship is definitely over and that their love for you is not as strong as before or completely gone. Next, take note of how he interacts with you, and how he interacts with his friends and strangers.

If he's able to flirt with his friends (if that's what he defines them to be) and strangers and he seem to have trouble flirting with you, it usually means... your charms are now ineffective. He is no longer attracted to you. He no longer thinks of you romantically and that whatever magic existed between you two have quickly went up in smoke. He's grown tired of you.

If you ask him questions, and his answers are usually "I don't know" it usually means he doesn't want to deal with you or he just doesn't want to give you an answer. It's better that you stop questioning now because it is not going to get you anywhere.

From someone you used to share everything with, your thoughts, your feelings, your hopes, and fears... to someone who totally closed themselves off to you.

This kind of behavior often means they don't want to share anything with you anymore.

It's better to let them be.

*Note to self: READ THIS ENTRY EVERYDAY - *