Monday, January 19, 2009

Thirteen Step Program

These 13 steps will help me on my way.

1. I will remove Ervin from my present and my future.
2. I will detach myself from anything and everything relating to Ervin.
3. I will end all communication with Ervin.
4. I will learn something from this relationship.
5. I will not rely on others emotionally.
6. I will learn to trust people again.
7. I will surround myself with positive, caring people.
8. I will not make the same mistakes Ervin did. (rebound)
9. I will not let this experience change who I am for the worse.
10. I will not go around in circles.
11. I will look forward and not look back on the memories we shared.
12. I will give my love to someone who deserves it.
13. I will love myself more than Ervin ever could.

2 comments:

  1. *SIGH* you and I have soooo much in common....

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  2. this is my most favorite one of all thus far. i want to give you the biggest hug right now after reading this because i know that when you wrote this, you had the biggest moment of clarity. i'm proud of you like there's no tomorrow, mark. you do realize that i'm going to hold you accountable to these thirteen things, right? just wanted to let you know.

    this one gets three hearts. <3 <3 <3

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