Family Ties

Annoyed. I hate it when family members make me feel guilty about trying to spend a little money on myself. Im not a selfish person, I dont ask for much. BUT DAMN! I would like to think I help my family out financially but apparently its not enough. I have other financial obligations now, I cant just keep giving them money whenever they want it. I have to make some cuts or change some thing. I keep telling them that I am saving money for a new computer in addition to paying my phone bills and rent and giving them allowances every two weeks. I get a cold slap in the face when they said I was selfish for not being able to take them out to dinner. I don't make much money but damn... I try my best to be the best supportive psuedo-son and I just cant get a break.