Attraction

Attraction is often the component that brings couples together initially. It is often intertwined with feelings of closeness to another person.

What am I attracted to?

Intellect: I like a person with brains. They don't have to be Einsteins but enough to hold a conversation and put together an IKEA furniture without a manual.

Humor: A sense of humor yes. I like witty humor. Im not much of a dry or slapstick comedy fan. Im more of a MadTV than an SNL.

Personality: I like someone who's outgoing, but can also relax and stay in. I am more of an introvert and I enjoy spending time with the person I like. So if you're always out and about, we're not a match. Low-key.

Maturity: No stalker, controlling, obsessive types. Someone who doesn't take their problems to bed. Someone who can deal with the obstacles in life looking from both sides of the problem. Selfless and fair.

Body Type: Average to Built. I like average people who takes care of themselves. I don't like them too skinny or too big. A little lean muscle would be nice.

Style: Simple and Clean. I don't like em too flashy.

Tattoos: Depends on how big the tattoo is. If it covers less than 25% of a body part then I'll probably be okay. Some get it to express their artistic side. I guess I just like to work with a clean canvas. Hennas are okay, lol!

Piercings: Ears, Yes. Face, No. Body, Not really a big fan. I guess I'm the type who likes to keep it simple. Not really flashy or showy. Body piercings are not really my thing. I think that body piercings are for the most part a surgery performed for cosmetic reasons. That is why most people get it in places where it can be seen. As for sexual enhancement reasons... it probably just means your partner isn't doing enough or something wrong, LOL, which can lead one to warrant lower self-esteem issues, but I digress to the next topic...

Esteem: I like people who have high self-esteem with built-in insecurities. If its too high, they can get too cocky... and if its too low they can be a downer. I like em somewhere in the middle.

Ambition: I like people with drive. Im a dreamer so I need people who believes in me. I admire those who go after what they want and make shortcuts or detours where they need to to get ahead.

Wealth: Mo Money Mo Problems.